Girlfriend Experience
You might have heard the term before, or it might be new to you. Often, it’s also unclear what it actually means, as it can vary depending on the lady and what she means by it.
“The Girlfriend Experience (GFE) is a term for a sexual encounter in which both the client and the Lady of Pleasure participate in mutual sexual pleasure and some degree of emotional intimacy.”
Physical Attention
A good date starts with a drink and an open conversation. Tell me more about what you enjoy. Where your pleasure, boundaries, and curiosity lie.
With all my experience, I know everyone likes something different in the bedroom, but unfortunately, I can’t read minds. By sharing this, you can fully enjoy the next step.
During our intimate moments, I pay close attention to your physical needs and desires. My approach focuses on a sensitive and intuitive interaction, where I touch your body in a sensetive way.
Keep communicating. Don’t be ashamed, nothing is strange!
Louder, softer, faster, slower… Say what it is that you would enjoy.
If you enjoy yourself, I enjoy myself. It’s wonderful to see you grow literally and figuratively.
This way, we get the most out of our sexual experience.
Personal Attention
Besides the great time in the bedroom, it’s also important for me to show interest in you and to create an emotional connection and affection.
Who are you? What do you do in daily life? What makes you happy? What do you (sexually) struggle with?
We’ve all heard that sexworkers also psychologists sometimes. In a way, that’s true. I’m a safe zone for you to talk, to enjoy the interest and openness we can show each other.
If you prefer not to talk about daily life but keep it light and casual, laughter and coziness can also create a bond.
Other Requests
Are you insecure about your body, do you have medical/mental issues or fetish? Are you neurodivergent or a virgin? These can all be discussed in a respectful manner.
I am happy to brainstorm with you about the possibilities during our appointment and how we can achieve this together.
Please keep in mind that everybody is different. Just because you want something that is not considered “normal”, does not mean it’s not okay. As long as you remain respectfull in your request and remember who I am and what I stand for, you are more than welcome to contact me.
Share what you need exactly and get the most out of our booking.
Rates & Logistics
Because getting to know each other and truly enjoying each other’s company takes time, the minimum length of dates is 2 hours.
Regular Dates
| 2 hours | € 700 |
| 3 hours | € 950 |
| 4 hours | € 1.200 |
| 5 hours | € 1.450 |
| 6 hours | € 1.700 |
| 7 hours | € 1.900 |
| 8 hours | € 2.100 |
Extended Dates
| 10 hours | € 2.400 |
| 12 hours | € 2.700 |
| 16 hours | € 3.200 |
| 24 hours | € 3.700 |
| 48 hours | € 4.950 |
| 72 hours | € 6.250 |
| Every extra 24h | € 1.250 |
Travel expenses
The further you live from my cozy home in Amsterdam, the higher the travel costs will be. I am transparent about this, and I will be clear about what you can expect from me before requesting a deposit.
Deposits
You will receive a payment request via WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal or email from my Dutch bank account or my international bank account. Once I have received the deposit, your appointment will be confirmed.
Extended Dates
For engagements of 12 hours or longer, or FMTY, a 50% deposit is required. Travel expenses are also your responsibility. For engagements within Europe but outside the Netherlands, the remaining 50% can only be paid upon arrival via a payment request. Unfortunately, cash is not accepted.
For now, I’m only available for FMTY within Europe or North America. For FMTY outside of Europe, I require full payment in advance, along with the travel expenses.
To ensure we both feel our best during extended dates, I kindly ask that we have a meal every 4 hours, and for overnights, that there’s time for at least 8 hours of restful sleep.
Cancellation
Of course, it can happen that you are unable to make it—life is unpredictable! Therefore, you can reschedule our booking once up to 12 hours before our date. You can reschedule within one month from the day you inform me of the change.
As all deposits are non-refundable, I kindly ask you to plan our date only when you’re sure of your availability — your time and mine are both truly precious.
How will the remainder of the payment be handled?
Upon arrival, you can settle the remaining amount through a payment request, by card, or in cash. Unfortunately, you can only pay in euros, and I cannot accept €200 or €500 bills. If you prefer that I feel comfortable, please use a payment request.
If you wish to pay by bank transfer, please make sure the full amount is sent at least 5 business days before our booking. Bank transfers take time to process, and unfortunately, I can’t begin our time together until the full amount has cleared in my account.
Tips are not demanded, but always welcome.
What I take care of
- Just before our date, I pamper and take care of myself properly (don't worry, I'll save some for you too!)
- I also ensure I am discreetly dressed, but also with beautiful lingerie underneath my clothes.
- Any special requests from you regarding clothing and make-up.
- I make sure I arrive well-prepared and on time to our date.
- A fantastic date!
What not to expect
- Anything other than safe sex is out of the question – you shouldn’t want it any other way yourself.
- Anal sex – it’s simply not my thing.
- Any other service than the GFE, or outside its spirit of intimacy and connection
- Clothing requests that do not suit my body—please remember that I am plus-sized, and not all outfits or lingerie will be appropriate.
What you take care of
- Good hygiene is crucial for a pleasant date. Consider shaving your face, trimming nails, brushing teeth, and showering thoroughly. Please don't use aftershave and use a minimal amount of perfume.
- A clean home is equally important. Change your bedsheets and ensure your home is clean and tidy.
- Respect can be interpreted in various ways, including hospitality, respecting boundaries and hygiene, and maintaining a good vibe.
- For a date in a hotel, you should only book a 4- or 5-star hotel.
- If you prefer to pay in cash, please hand it to me discreetly in an envelope within the first 10 minutes of our date.
- If you choose to pay via payment request, I’ll send it before my arrival, and kindly ask that you complete it within the first 10 minutes of our time together.
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