One of the questions I regularly receive from clients, especially from men visiting Amsterdam for business or a special weekend away, is which hotel I would recommend for a meeting. Amsterdam is home to many beautiful hotels, but over the years there are a few places that I find myself returning to again and again.
It is a question that regularly appears in booking requests and emails. Sometimes it is asked directly, but more often I find it hidden between the lines. Men might begin their message by mentioning their age, followed by a comment that they are probably older than most of my clients
One of the questions I regularly receive from new clients is why I do not offer phone calls before a meeting. Usually, this question comes from a good place. Some men feel more comfortable hearing a voice before submitting a booking request.
It’s a question that I am rarely asked directly, but one that I know many men think about before submitting a booking request. Am I her type?
Some men are surprised when they open my booking form. They may expect to simply leave a date, location, and phone number. Instead, I ask about who you are, what you’re looking for, how you envision our time together, and sometimes a little personal information about yourself.
It’s a question that I am not often asked directly, but one that I know many men carry with them. What if I’m still a virgin?
Over the past few months, you may have noticed that I have become less active on social media. Fewer posts, fewer stories, and sometimes days where it may seem as though I have disappeared completely.
No two people are the same. That may sound obvious, but I feel it every time I meet someone. Everyone brings their own energy, their own rhythm, and their own way of being present. And for me, that is exactly where the essence of what I do lies: attunement.
Attunement does not mean adapting or losing myself. It means listening, observing, and sensing what is needed in the moment, often without it having to be spoken.
Sometimes you don’t know exactly when the idea first appeared. Perhaps it wasn’t a decision, but a thought that kept returning. Something that slowly took shape, without needing words. Curiosity, mixed with tension. A quiet desire.
You are here now, reading this, and maybe that already feels like a small step. Not because you are committing to anything, but because you are allowing yourself to explore what this could be for you. And that alone already says enough.
It is a question many people ask themselves, often before they even dare to say it out loud. Is it safe? What if it feels uncomfortable? What if my privacy is not respected?
Those concerns are completely understandable. When you invite someone into your time, your space, and perhaps also your intimacy, you want to know where you stand.
It is a question many people ask themselves, often in silence. Sometimes in the middle of the night, sometimes in moments when life seems to be going well on the surface. Is it strange that I long for closeness, without promises? Without future plans? Without expectations?
This is a question I receive more often than you might expect. Sometimes it is asked directly, sometimes it is hidden between the lines. Is it real? Isn’t it acted? Can a woman actually relax?
The honest answer is: yes, but not in the way people sometimes imagine.
