As mentioned at the bottom of my website, I advertise on several international escort websites. One of those websites is Top Escort Babes. They have asked me if I would like to be interviewed for their website. Of course, I love that! Below you will find the interview.
How did you start working as an escort?
I started working as a lady of pleasure when I was 18 and began in a high-class sex club. During my studies, I gained a few years of experience there and learned who I am as a person and as a lady of pleasure. For the past two years, I have owned my own business and work as an independent high-class escort.
And how many years have you been doing this job?
I have been a lady of pleasure for almost 8 years now! And I still enjoy it just as much as I did on the first day I started.
Did you have another job before?
Yes, I studied Event Management and now I also work as a freelance Event Manager alongside it.
Was there a specific moment or experience in your previous job that made you realize you wanted to explore a more unconventional career path like escorting?
During my studies, I was already interested in sex and in pleasing a man, both physically and mentally. I also explored this business by reading a lot and watching documentaries. It turns out that this interest translates well into a professional career!
Are you satisfied with the earnings?
Yes, I am. The only downside of being self-employed is that you never know when work will come or not, which can sometimes be difficult to predict.
That’s great to hear! Have you treated yourself to anything special with your earnings?
Haha, yes of course! I usually treat myself with a full body massage, selfcare day, fine dining, books or new clothes. I also love to travel and explore new countries. I’m not a fan of designer clothes, bags, or makeup; it just doesn’t suit me as a person.
How do you allocate your working time, do you have a certain schedule or is it always different?
Every day and week is different. I’m not an early bird, so I sleep in. My bookings are almost always in the evening, so in the afternoons I work on my other business or do yoga, go for walks, cook, or do something for myself. I accept a maximum of one booking per day and up to three bookings per week. This allows me to maintain a healthy work-life balance and offer my clients the best by preparing thoroughly for our appointments and being fully rested and present.
And do you have a favorite time of day to work, or does it depend on your mood?
I’m a true night owl, so I am at my best in the evening. I enjoy the setting sun, the onset of nightlife, and the excitement that the night can bring.
Do you always work in the same place or is it always different?
My bookings are almost always at different locations since I work as an escort. I mostly visit hotels, often in Amsterdam, but it can also be outside Amsterdam or even the Netherlands. Some hotels I do visit more frequently because they are popular.
What’s the most adventurous location where you’ve had an appointment?
I had a fantastic booking in Saint-Tropez on his boat. It was a unique experience where we explored the surroundings and went sailing.
Do you like to travel and discover new places?
Absolutely! Sometimes it can be a bit exciting because I might not be familiar with a particular environment, but generally, I get to see fantastic places, for which I am very grateful.
Great! And what’s the coolest place you’ve been to for work, and do you get to enjoy the sights while you’re there?
Greece and Switzerland have fantastic places to explore. Morocco also has beautiful nature. I try my best to make time to be a tourist, but unfortunately, it’s not always possible. There are some places I’d love to return to because I know they’re beautiful, but I haven’t had the chance to explore them much yet.
Do you have many regular customers?
Of course, haha, otherwise I’d be doing something wrong after being active as a lady of pleasure for so long. Building a personal connection is an essential part of The Girlfriend Experience, and I find it very important. However, I do have many clients who are in Amsterdam for a business trip, so I often don’t see the same people again or only after a long time
And have you ever had to deal with jealousy or possessiveness from regular clients? How do you manage those situations?
Definitely. I think this often happens because the bookings are more personal due to GFE. Sometimes men develop feelings and don’t understand that this is my job and that I have a private life and other clients outside of our appointments. They can get stuck in the illusion. Fortunately, I am good at setting boundaries and know how to handle these situations.
What do you like most about this job? What you don t like?
I find happiness in seeing the genuine pleasure a man experiences during a booking. When I leave after our date, I know they truly benefited from it and appreciate me, which gives me a good feeling. I also enjoy the freedom that comes with being self-employed.
The downside of this work is dealing with many fakers—people who aren’t serious about making an appointment and just want to chat without intention. It’s also frustrating to receive messages from people who haven’t read my profile or details.
Have you ever been booked by a famous person?
Yes, I have. By national and international famous men. And no, I’m not gonna give you details 😉
Without spilling too many secrets, and without names, what’s it like working with someone famous? Any fun or surprising stories?
It depends on the person, as everyone, whether rich, famous, or not, is different.
A funny story is that I was once booked by a well-known soccer player. Unfortunately, I didn’t know anything about soccer, so at the end of the date, he laughingly revealed what he did, realizing that I had no idea who he was.
I was a bit embarrassed, though!
Has any client fallen in love with you? What about you?
As I mentioned earlier, this happens quite regularly.
No, I have never fallen in love with a client. It’s a boundary I set for myself at the start of my career, which helps me maintain distance from the situations and prevents it from happening.
Why do you think men like escorts?
Absolutely, it’s great that they are appreciated and valued too!
Have you ever been booked by a couple?
Yes, very often. This is one of my specialties.
This is because I have a clear understanding of what I do during such a date. I see myself as an enhancement to their sexual experiences, not as just a part of them. I strive to take their sexual experience to the next level, both verbally and physically. Having a clear vision of what you do on an evening like this instils confidence in couples to book with you.
How much time do you allocate for yourself, by this I mean training, beauty etc.
I find self-care, both physical and mental, extremely important. I take it very seriously and work hard on it every day.
It is important to me to remain as natural as possible, as this is part of who I am and what I offer. Therefore, I don’t use Botox or other procedures, I keep my makeup as natural as possible, and I don’t wear designer clothes. This doesn’t mean I don’t take good care of my skin or clothing—these are definitely high on my list of priorities.
What kind of guest is a good guest from your point of view?
Someone who understands that respect, discretion, and hygiene are important.
Tell me 5 important things a client should know before coming to an appointment?
- Read the entire profile and website of the lady before booking her.
- Provide all the information she requests.
- Take care of your personal grooming, including not using too much aftershave/perfume.
- Make sure you know how to make a lady of pleasure feel comfortable.
- Arrive in a good mood and on time.
What is the most impressive gift you have received?
My client immediately ordered and paid for a MacBook at the Apple Store, which I was able to pick up the same day when he found out that mine wasn’t working right before I had to submit my thesis. Besides being an expensive and thoughtful gift, his help and quick action at such a crucial time were extremely important to me. I was very grateful for that.
Which is the strangest thing a guest asked you to do?
A client once asked me to hide him in the closet and only let him out after 3 hours while I ordered room service, watched TV, and ordered clothes on his account. I found it to be a strange request, but he was very happy with it!
Have you experienced any unpleasant moments since doing this job?
Of course, it would be weird not to in all of these years. But I am capable of protecting my own boundaries. I also know very well to trust my own gut, so it rarely happens.
That’s tough. How do you handle those situations, and what advice would you give others in the industry for staying safe?
Know who you are and what you stand for. Als long as you know that and are capable of protection your own boundaries, you should be fine.
How has this job changed you?
My look on men and how they are not always as big and tough as they say they are. They also have a small hart, need to be reassured and cuddled.
They have the feeling they always need to be tough and can’t cry or discuss their emotions.
That’s awesome to hear. Any unexpected lessons or personal growth you’ve experienced that you didn’t anticipate when you started?
The way I see myself—I don’t always think I’m particularly beautiful, and I think almost everyone feels that way. But because I often hear how beautiful, kind, and pretty I am, I’m no longer insecure about my appearance. It’s a comforting feeling to experience at a young age and to walk confidently through the streets.
How long do you think you will continue in this field?
I honestly hope for a very, very long time!
Are you used to going to health tests?
Oh yes, absolutely. It’s in my schedule and I’ll go every 3 months. I never felt insecure or judged by health care providers. Since escort is legal in the Netherlands, there are many places where I can get tested and am happy to see them every other month.
How much do the guests pay attention to hygiene?
Basically every men who book me. That’s because it’s very important to me and I mention it before someone actually schedules a booking.
Sometimes it’s not on point, but when I point it out they immediately correct the situation.
What do you think about men who do escorting?
All people—men, women, queer individuals—are free to do this work. For me, it’s important that they enjoy it, as there is plenty of demand for everyone who wants to pursue this profession!
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