Nervousness often gets a bad reputation. We associate it with doubt, fear, or uncertainty, as if feeling nervous means we are doing something wrong, or stepping into something we shouldn’t. But in my experience, nervousness usually means the opposite. It means something matters.
In a world where connection often begins quickly and digitally, the feeling of a true click has become something people look for almost as a form of confirmation. And yet it remains something that cannot be planned or forced. A click is not the result of perfect behaviour, clever lines or physical attraction. It either happens, or it does not.
There are moments in life when a decision arrives quietly.
Not with drama, not with urgency, but with a calm certainty that settles deep in the body.
With a tender ache in my heart, I want to share that I will be stepping away on December 30th, 2026.
This coming year will be the last year you’ll be able to find me, meet me, and create memories with me.
In my work, I meet men from all walks of life, with different backgrounds, ages and personalities. Some are confident and outgoing, others more thoughtful and reserved. There is no fixed profile that defines whether someone is attractive. But I do notice that certain qualities stand out again and again. Not because they are loud or obvious, but because they carry something that stays with you.
For many men, the idea of booking an escort brings up questions. Not just about how such an experience unfolds in practice, but especially about themselves. Is this something that suits me? Will I feel comfortable? What am I actually looking for? And perhaps also: what if it disappoints, or I am unsure how to behave?
Those kinds of questions are completely normal. In this blog, I’ll walk you through a few thoughts that might help you decide whether this is something that could be right for you.
To me, a good restaurant is more than just a place to eat. It is a setting where atmosphere, calm and refinement come together. Whether it is an evening where everything is carefully planned, or a spontaneous meeting with a focus on simplicity, the right location makes all the difference. Amsterdam has much to offer in that respect. Below I share a few of my favourite places, each with its own character and suited to a different kind of moment. All of them are also lovely to visit with a companion.
For many men, booking a companion is something they think about for quite some time before they actually take the step. Not because they do not want to, but because there is often some uncertainty. You might wonder whether this is something for you, whether you know how to make contact in the right way, whether it will feel awkward, or whether you will come across as confident enough. Especially if it is your first time, that hesitation can feel very real.
One of the most unexpected parts of this work is how much it teaches you. Not only about others, but also about yourself. What may seem at first like a graceful meeting between two people often turns out to be something much more layered. Every conversation, every glance, and even a moment of silence reveals something about how people connect, how they relax, what they need, and sometimes what they are missing.
A meaningful date is not just about atmosphere or attraction. The quality of the conversation often plays an equally important role. It is not always the big subjects that leave an impression, but rather the questions that show genuine curiosity. A good conversation does not need to be heavy or complicated. What matters most is being open to what lives in the other person and having the courage to share something of yourself.
A meeting with a companion is not just another appointment. Especially when you consciously choose quality, discretion and atmosphere, preparation makes all the difference. Whether it is your first time or you are already familiar with this kind of company, being well prepared helps the meeting feel more relaxed and natural. It allows both of you to be fully present, and lets the experience unfold in its own rhythm.
I did not grow up knowing I wanted to become a companion. The idea did not appear out of nowhere, but developed slowly over time, shaped by experiences, interests and the kind of connection I value as a person. What I have always known is that I enjoy being around people. Not in a fast or surface-level way, but with genuine attention.
In refined company, it is rarely about what you do but much more about the way you do it. The choices you make in language, gestures and presence form a quiet kind of communication that often says more than any compliment or conversation ever could. Within the world of high class companionship, etiquette is not a rigid system of rules. It is a refined expression of mutual respect that invites calm, attentiveness and connection.
